Finding the “right” time to start a family
Like many couples, Kathryn and her husband Dan always wanted children, but the timing never felt right. As a professional musician and teacher, Dan worked long hours. Kathryn, a perinatal nurse, cared for newborns and families — and witnessed both the joy and heartbreak of bringing fragile new life into the world.
“Because I had that exposure to a lot of high-risk pregnancies, I was really nervous to have a baby,” she said. “But we decided we’re not getting any younger and we wanted to give it a go.”
At 35 — considered advancing maternal age — she understood that becoming pregnant might be more difficult. At the same time, she wanted to give herself permission to quiet her “nurse brain” and experience the journey as a patient.
“The recommendation for women my age is to consult a reproductive health practitioner if a successful pregnancy doesn’t occur within the first 6 months of trying,” she recalled. “But I felt like I needed support earlier in my journey.”
After experiencing two early losses within the first few months of trying, Kathryn turned to Maven for support.
“Maven turned out to be an incredible resource — it felt like such a treat to be able to access it,” she said.